Pearl of Wisdom

'The sagacious person is someone who subjugates himself and acts for that which comes after death.'

Prophet Muhammad al-Mustafa [sawa]
Makarim al-Akhlaq, v. 2, p. 368, no. 2661

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1267 Asking for any AYAT/DUA S.A
i want to ask for any Dua or AYAT to recite for getting my Lover(mehboob) for nikkah(marriage). But there is a minor problem that my love is one directional they said we are only friends but we are talking,behaving,caring to each other like a husband wife.
I want her as my wife i m loving her so much from bottom of my heart but i afraid to tell because i dont want to loose my friendship relationship with her.
So please tell me any AYAT or Dua or WAZIFA to create love between us. Because i m not want her as a time pass or such other way... i m loving her from my bottom of heart.
Please help me.
1296 Spouse Selection Assalam Alaiykum,

I am Shia Muslim contacting you from USA.

I have 2 questions:

1. My family introduced me to a proposal for marriage from Pakistan. This girl and I approved each other. I went to Pakistan in November 2019 and spent almost 3 months there. My family later on backed off and told me to walk away from this proposal. Nevertheless this girl and I decided that we will get married.

I had to come back to USA for my business needs and told her that I would be back in 4 months or so, however due to Corona virus, everything including travel became very difficult for me to cope with. She became very upset that I didn't go back in 4 months as I had told her previously.

Lastly I was supposed to get married on coming 9 Rabi ul awal of this year. About 2 weeks ago, she notified me that she will NOT marry me and she is in love with someone else and wants to marry this person. Since than my life has come to hell, I have been in a lot of pain and can't focus on anything. I was deeply in love with her.

I understand in Islam, there is no pre marital love relationship, but I was going to marry her and that's why I was talking to her all this time.

My question is, how I can get over this emotional pain and focus?

2. My second question is what is the criteria for spouse selection as I sometimes think that she was NOT the person? I have researched and it appears to be "Iman and Ikhlaq" is the basic criteria. So my question is how do you know if someone has good ikhlaq and iman in 1-2 meetings or phone calls? People are very nice and caring in the beginning, but than change later on.

May Allah bless for assisting me.

1272 Consent for marriage. Salam.
Is it necessary for an independent Shia muslim boy to take the consent of his mother for getting married to a religious muslim girl?
Is forced marriage allowed in Islam? Against the consent of boy or girl for marriage?
1335 Our sexual life Salam, I just want to ask a question that my husband and I when we get together he always want to do in my back but I can’t stop him, what should I do?
And how bad is it and how about the Gunah and what does our religion say about this???
Plz answer
2149 Syeda marriage Hello sir can syeda marry a non syed in Islamic shariyat?
2150 Syeda marriage Can syeda marry a non syed muslim in islam?
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