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'The one who commits an evil deed openly is disgraced [by Allah], and the one who hides his evil deed [feeling ashamed of it] is forgiven by Allah.'

Imam Ali ibn Musa al-Ridha [as]
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 73, p. 356, no. 67

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Question : #779 Category: Sexual Ethics & Morals
Subject: Anal sex in marriage
Question: Assalamu alaikum
I have been married for 15 years . My husband always wanted anal sex since we got married. He used to trick me by many ways to get what he wants. We had many fights about this issue.He promised many times that he wont do it again.But he never stopped.I feel very bad about this.I told him many times that if he do it again i will leave him , but he still continued in this act.Last time i warned him if he just try it again it will be his last day with me .My words didn't stop him ,he did it again.My question is ,please advise me on what to do ??,I feel it will never stop.
Thank you
Salam alaikum
Answer: Alaikum Salaam,

Such a sexual technique is not allowed without the conceit of the wife, plus it's a discouraged act.

Please refer your husband to the rulings of his Marja as all share this opinion.
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