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'How ugly the man who is sick inwardly and beautiful outwardly.'

Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib [as]
Ghurar al-Hikam, no. 9661

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Question : #779 Category: Sexual Ethics & Morals
Subject: Anal sex in marriage
Question: Assalamu alaikum
I have been married for 15 years . My husband always wanted anal sex since we got married. He used to trick me by many ways to get what he wants. We had many fights about this issue.He promised many times that he wont do it again.But he never stopped.I feel very bad about this.I told him many times that if he do it again i will leave him , but he still continued in this act.Last time i warned him if he just try it again it will be his last day with me .My words didn't stop him ,he did it again.My question is ,please advise me on what to do ??,I feel it will never stop.
Thank you
Salam alaikum
Answer: Alaikum Salaam,

Such a sexual technique is not allowed without the conceit of the wife, plus it's a discouraged act.

Please refer your husband to the rulings of his Marja as all share this opinion.
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What are you even talking about, is there some sntgrae sect that believes only memorizations is need? Cause Islam from all I have learned You must believe in one God, and you have two angels on your shoulder one writing up all the good deeds the other all the bad, in the end, your good deeds need to out weigh the bad, its taught its good to memorize the bible, or pray in Mosques, but good deeds are need too! Please site were it claims you only need to memorize it please!
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