Pearl of Wisdom

'Ibn Khuli came to him (SAWA) with a bowl of honey and milk, and he refused to drink it, saying, 'Two drinks in one meal, and two bowls in one bowl?!' So, he refused to drink it, and he then said, 'I do not prohibit it, but I hate pride, and having to account for the extravagances of this world tomorrow, and I love humbleness, for he who is humble for Allah, Allah will elevate him.'

Imam Ali ibn Hussain Zayn al-'Abidin [as]
Makarim al-Akhlaq, v. 1, p. 79, no. 124

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Question : #350 Category: Divorce / Talaq
Subject: marriage, family issue - please help
Question: A sayyada female who got married 5 years back is not living with her husband since last 3 years and her husband is also not providing her any money since last 3 years for her basic expenses. She is also rearing up her one daughter on her own. This female is living with her parents. The parents of this female are not in the favour of taking divorce as this is a matter of insult for them. This female cant go to the court on her own as she is living in Pakistan n conditions of her city doesnt allow her to go to the court without support of her family. What is the status of her marriage now according to the shariah and what solution she can have to overcome such problem? She is willing to have divorce desperately.Jazak Allah.
Answer: She needs to refer her matter to a pious Aalim who should have authorisation from Marja of Taqleed, to solve her problem either to mediate between her and her husband or to convince him to divorce her. If the husband is not giving her her rights, then he should divorce her, and if he refuses and insists on not giving her rights and not divorcing her, the Haakim Shara or his attorney can divorce her and make free from injustice.

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