Pearl of Wisdom

'Verily Allah, Blessed and most High, says, 'Verily from among My servants is he who asks Me to enable him to perform an act of obedience to Me in order that he may procure My love, but I however, withhold that from him in order that he does not come to feel proud of that action of his.'

Imam Muhammad ibn Ali al-Baqir [as]
al-Zuhd li al-Husayn b. Sa'id, p. 68, no. 179

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Question : #336 Category: Marriage - Nikkah
Subject: marriage relationship problem
Question: I hav been married for 1 year 3 months ....... still we dont have any relationship among us.. i think no one will have such a life like this .... i tried to be intimate but he avoids me ... if either of our parents know that we havt live togethereven for a single day they will be sad hurt badly.i dont want that to happen what should i do?
Answer: You and your husband need counselling to discuss the reasons of this unusual situation and try to solve the problem. You may talk to your husband and agree with him on that and take steps, but do not make it an issue of dispue and never blame him because it might worsen the situation. It is a propblem concerning both of you, and you should share the efforts to solve it.

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